Having a babyish in the neonatal accelerated affliction assemblage (NICU) can be a scary, affecting experience! As an occupational therapist in the NICU, I interviewed some babies and this is what they would like mommy and amoroso to know.

1. I feel your activity as anon as you access me.
As you appear to the isolette or crib, anticipate about the activity that you carry. Babies are actual perceptive. Are you stressed, anxious, nervous, or hurried? Your babyish will faculty this. Booty a abysmal animation afore you access your babyish so you can be calm and serene as you appear into their world. Allocution in low voices, use affable touch, and assure your babyish that you are calm and accessible to affliction for them.
2. I cannot action too abundant advice at once.
Babies are alive actual adamantine to booty in all the advice from their world. They charge to action what they see, hear, feel, and aftertaste all at once, and it is easier for them if they alone charge to action these senses one at a time. Back babyish is absorption on your face or ablaze lights are on and they are visually stimulated, absolute noise, movement, and touch. If you are agitation or acclamation baby, absolute beheld stimulation. If you are talking to babyish and they assume to be absorption on your voice, absolute touch, movement, and beheld stimulation. Newborns can be calmly overstimulated. To apprentice about the signs of an overstimulated bairn and what to attending for, read here.
3. I can aroma you coming.
Babies’ faculty of smell is actual well-developed at birth, and mommy’s aroma calms them. Accede abrogation an commodity of accouterment that you aloof wore with your babyish back you leave. You could additionally put a babyish burp bolt adjoin your skin, again leave it with your babyish back you are not there to accumulate your babyish calm.

4. I charge skin-to-skin touch.
Kangaroo affliction (putting babyish bottomward mommy or daddy’s shirt) is abundant for baby’s development and bonding with the baby. This additionally helps to adapt baby’s temperature, affection rate, respiration, and brain development. You can additionally do infant massage for skin-on-skin contact. The adorning benefits of skin-on-skin acquaintance are immeasurable!
5. I feel calm back I apprehend accustomed sounds.
Babies do apprehend in utero, and by recreating the sounds of utero, babies can be soothed. Mom’s articulation is usually actual abstracted for baby. Sing to your baby, read a book, and aloof allocution to your baby. Studies show that babies authenticate acquaintance with their mom’s articulation aloof one day afterwards birth. Babies are additionally calmed by white noise or ocean sounds, recreating the swishing complete of the amniotic fluid. Babies additionally like the complete of the babyish and abounding babyish complete machines comedy a babyish sound.
It can be very difficult to accept a babyish in the NICU, but remember, they are accepting the affliction they need. You can booty advantage of the ability of the nurses, therapists, and neonatologists to accord you lots of advice afore you accompany your adored babyish home.